Before I even start let me
say something in the interest of full disclosure, I have yet to take a spiritual
gifts indicator that Compassion was not one of my top three gifts. With that being said, I feel sorry for Lance
Armstrong. I know, he brought it on
himself and he deserves what he gets. I
just hope that standard is never applied to my life and I hate when it gets
applied to others’ lives. I don’t think
a single one of us wants what we deserve or would want to experience what we have potentially
brought on ourselves (including the sports writers who will spend the next
months slicing and dicing Lance with their words).
I wonder what life looks like
for Lance today? Does he have friends
that will stick with him through this?
Does he even have a place that he can go eat and not do so in
shame? How does he feel about this mark
on what was his legacy? What will Lance
do now? These are the same questions I
have every time I hear of a fellow pastor who is getting a divorce because he
had an affair. These are the same questions
I had when all of my childhood baseball heroes were exposed in a steroid
scandal. Maybe I am more concerned about
these things than the individuals themselves are?
Here is what I do know. Christ was and is in the business of restoration. Unfortunately, most people are not so
interested in restoration. We swarm when
there is a failure. We love to analyze
what went wrong. We love to pick apart
the lives of others when they fail. We
love to speculate on which of their many sins was the one that actually opened
the door to their failure? We do all of
this without ever acknowledging that many of the same sins exist in our
lives. I’m not saying we gloss over sin,
I’m just saying we should focus more on the road to restoration than we do the sin. We should be more concerned about the person
than we are the story or the sin.
Wednesday night the story of
the woman caught in adultery (John 8) came up in our LifeGroup at the
church. We were discussing how we are to
respond to the sinfulness of others. Our
leader made a great point. Jesus did not
gloss over this woman’s sin nor did He condemn her for it. Jesus was instructive and restorative in a single statement. Verse 11 says, “Neither do I
condemn you (restoration); go (hope), and from now on sin no more
(instructive).”
As a pastor, my heart aches
for people when their sin catches up to them.
Of course I don’t want them to continue in sin. And of course, if they are a leader, I am not
going to allow them to continue in leadership.
However, on a personal level, I just want to grab them, give them a
giant hug, and say, “this will work out.”
“This is why Jesus died.” “This
is why Christ paid the price He did.” “Now,
go and sin no more.”
What a tricky line we walk in
this life. One thing is for sure, there
is no shortage of people in this world who are hurting. And to each of them Christ would say, “Neither
do I condemn you.” Such condemnation would
be counter to His character.
Thank you. As Dub and I sat watching the news replay and replay and replay the expose of Lance's sins, I looked at Dub and said, "All I care about is that he needs Jesus". Thank you for the reminder that I would not want my life plastered on the nightly news or in the church newsletter.
ReplyDeleteDarrell,
ReplyDeleteYou are truley a man of God with Godly direction. I am humbled by your instruction. I have harbored resentment because several times in the past I have held Armstrong in high regard even including him in sermon illustrations as one that has stood strong in the face of criticism. Grace is often in too small a measure, but with God it is unfathomable.
I would like to repost your blog with you permission.
Thanks